Warning Signs of Emotional Child Abuse

Any form of Parental and Child Alienation is abuse.

A child’s natural right is to be loved by both their parents and families, our right as parents is to love and nurture our children.

When the right is broken and we are stripped by malicious family litigation and fabricated stories to hurt another, we loose sight of the once joy formed for a growing baby. In the best interest of our children we must reform family law!

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COPING WITH THE TRAUMA OF PARENTAL ALIENATION

These internalized working models of the attachment trauma are contained in the pattern of:  “abusive parent”-“victimized child”-“protective parent”brainsyntax_children_pawns_deadbeat_society_g

These trauma-related roles from the childhood of the narcissistic/(borderline) parent are now being reenacted in the current family relationships.

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The lack of empathy of the alienating-pathological parent, lack of empathy is a key symptom feature of narcissism, allows that parent to use the child as a weapon (exploitation of others in the service of one’s own needs is another key symptom feature of narcissism) to emotionally batter the targeted-victimized parent in the most brutal of ways, by taking away the love shared between the targeted parent and the child.

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The lack of empathy of the alienating-pathological parent, lack of empathy is a key symptom feature of narcissism, allows that parent to use the child as a weapon (exploitation of others in the service of one’s own needs is another key symptom feature of narcissism) to emotionally batter the targeted-victimized parent in the most brutal of ways, by taking away the love shared between the targeted parent and the child.

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Kids are the ones who pay when an ex tries to strike the other parent out of the picture.
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“Parental Alienation: How It Affects Your Kids (It’s Worse Than You Think)”Mask Falls Off - 2016
The lack of empathy of the alienating-pathological parent, lack of empathy is a key symptom feature of narcissism, allows that parent to use the child as a weapon (exploitation of others in the service of one’s own needs is another key symptom feature of narcissism) to emotionally batter the targeted-victimized parent in the most brutal of ways, by taking away the love shared between the targeted parent and the child.

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My mentor, Salvador Minuchin, the most highly respected and world renowned child psychiatrist, does not believe that mental illness is biochemically caused. Instead, Dr. Minuchin asserts that mental illness is maintained by dysfunctional inter-personal relationships. Create healthy relationships a…

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More Money In Family Courts - 2016Always remember is that the courts are now an industry of corruption trafficking children for profit The system is not broken it was designed this way for profit. The corrupt family courts are a private corporation and as such must make a profit at any cost. Corrupt Family Courts.

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Child behaviours:

∗ View of parents one-sided, all good or all bad; idealizes one parent and devalues the other

∗ Vicious vilification of target parent; campaign of hatred

∗ Trivial, false and irrational reasons to justify hatred

∗ Reactions and perceptions unjustified or disproportionate to parent’s behaviours

∗ Talks openly to anyone about rejected parent’s perceived shortcomings

∗ Extends hatred to extended family and pets (hatred by association)alienation photo: Parental Alienation custodyani.gif

∗ No guilt or ambivalence regarding malicious treatment, hatred, etc.

∗ A stronger, but not necessarily healthy, psychological bond with alienating parent than with rejected parent

∗ Anger at rejected parent for abandonment; blames him/her for divorce

∗ Speech is brittle, a litany; obsessed; has an artificial quality; affect does not match
words; no conviction; unchildlike, uses adult language; has a rehearsed quality

∗ Stories are repetitive and lacking in detail and depth

∗ Mimics what siblings report rather than own experience

∗ Denial…

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Parental Advocate’s Alarming Report to Judicial Conduct Commission

Featured imageMany of our followers have asked what really happened to Leon Koziol to cause his law license to be suspended after 23 years of successful litigation on behalf of civil rights victims. Over the years, we have dodged such questions due to “confidential” processes and the monitoring of critical positions and reform efforts featured here.

equal justiceWell it’s time to tell the story, and this ordeal may shock you. It all began after he exposed corruption and abuses in matters of custody, child support and parental alienation. The details are now provided in a report submitted to the New York Commission on Judicial Conduct which is being made public today. Many victims of government abuse have sought representation but were necessarily turned away.

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Freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed.

As the report explains, free speech retributions by employees and judges of New York’s court system have prevented Leon Koziol from resuming his private law practice. Followers of our work have gained valuable insights into the realities faced by parents and families when they enter our nation’s domestic relations courts. Two moms and one dad recently disclosed that such insights actually turned their cases around. This information is free, study it wisely. We hope that it can benefit you and groups everywhere for the sake of our children. Call us at (315) 796-4000.

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* Court arguments are set to occur in Albany, NY at the Third Department appeals court on Wednesday, April 24, 2013 at 9:30 a.m. regarding Mr. Koziol’s civil suit against the state.

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After 23 years of success as a civil rights attorney, Leon R. Koziol, J.D., predicts increase in violence arising from litigant abuses in our courts.

Many of our followers have asked what really happened to Leon Koziol to cause his law license to be suspended after 23 years of successful litigation on behalf of civil rights victims. Over the years, we have dodged such questions due to “confidential” processes and the monitoring of critical positions and reform efforts featured here.

Well it’s time to tell the story, and this ordeal may shock you. It all began after he exposed corruption and abuses in matters of custody, child support and parental alienation. The details are now provided in a report submitted to the New York Commission on Judicial Conduct which is being made public today. Many victims of government abuse have sought representation but were necessarily turned away.

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Unjustified Contact Denial

My daughter is now 9 and despite a long court case, nothing much has changed.
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My ex has hurt me for years on end and she seems relentless in erasing me from our daughter’s life. I am reduced to nothing more than a brokenhearted dad that battles on for justice in the courts.

Will someone make or encourage my ex to let me see our daughter, to see me as an equal parent, and let me be a part of our daughter’s life? I have a lot to give and a lot to teach her, but the only people she gets to see is her mothers’ friends and family. Not a true representation of her whole family!

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Dads need daughtersAnd to me this is child abuse via parental alienation. This is the act of one parent trying to stop meaningful contact with the other parent.

It is time to stand up and make family laws fairer to stop child abuse being carried out and to promote shared parenting in the family courts for the good of our communities.

The Cause “Stand Up For Zoraya” celebrates the love fathers have for their daughters, inspiring them to embrace the important role they hold in their daughters’ lives and to provide the love, nurture, and emotional support that only they can give.. 

Bring awareness, celebrate, and support Father-Daughter Relationship Education.

Join the campaign and make a difference.

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“Reckless Disregard” A True And Compelling Story About One “FIT” Father’s Fight 

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Children's and Fathers Rights - Battling Parental Alienation in the UK & Beyond

My daughter is now 9 and despite a long court case, nothing much has changed. For 12 days every fortnight I am a hard-working, broken-hearted person and I cannot find anything in the UK to make me happy.

For the two days every fortnight that I get to spend with my daughter, I am a happy, proud and confident person, a total contrast to my days without her.

Yesterday I gazed out the window watching fireworks and was really missing my angel but I cannot call her, she doesn’t call me and knowing she is only a mile away hurts like hell.

My ex has hurt me for years on end and she seems relentless in erasing me from our daughter’s life and I am reduced to nothing more than a broken-hearted dad that battles on for justice in the courts, so that someone will make my ex encourage our…

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In Support of Dads Battling Family Courts

ALL JUDGES HAVE THE SAME LAST NAME — “GOD.”

Time to stop absolute discretion and immunity for Family Court Judges. They operate above the very laws they seek to enforce. They sit in judgement of families with no checks and balances. This legal loophole has been used as a means by corrupt Judges and Attorneys. No one should be beyond the laws that all other citizens of the society live by.

Whatever the court setting, whether it is regarding divorce, child custody, parental support, probate matters, personal injury, property disputes, legal or medical malpractice, criminal charges, or other deeply personal issues, the frauds put forth in our courts add greatly to the trauma. When litigants are unable to get fair resolution to their issues, when the court dysfunction further adds to the litigant’s burden, when no amount of actual case law compels an equitable outcome, litigants suffer often disabling levels of stress. When further attempts to achieve redress fail, litigants display the hallmark signs of Legal Abuse Syndrome (LAS). *The concept of Legal Abuse Syndrome was brought to the attention of this writer by investigative journalist Michael Volpe, who’s completing a book on the life and suicide of ones of its victims. The book’s pre-publication title is Bullied to Death: The Chris Mackney Story. (Dr. Huffer, incidentally, invites reports of cases like this one on her website’s Contact page.)

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“Pray like monks” says that when the US Supreme Court justices conference on October 16, the $355 million class action, federal family civil rights lawsuit v. (Judge) David Knutson, et al goes forward – a case for all families whose civil rights have been violated by Judges who claim immunity.  
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Parental Alienation deprives children of their right to be loved by and showing love for both of their parents!!

If a father withholds the access of a mother to her children, he can be arrested and charged with Child abduction and Kidnap. When a mother does the same against the father of the children, there are NO laws to stop her from doing this. As a result, many good fathers suffer depression, anxiety and emotional stress that can lead to loss of work, self harming and even suicide. In short, it has a devastating effect on us all.

Children NEED and deserve to have BOTH parents in their lives, the balance needs to be equal. Fathers should not be punished and branded and made to feel inadequate because a relationship with their former partner has deteriorated.

We are honest fathers, not drunks, drug users, nor ‘deadbeat’. All we want is to share in the upbringing of our children, be part of their lives, and have it enforced when our children are held against us as if for ransom.Study: Children Of Divorce Undergo Less Stress Living With Both Parents

Emotional Abuse Warning Signs - 2015 Children of divorced parents suffer less stress if they spend time living with BOTH Parents…
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Real Dads Embracing Non-Violence“And so, while our federal government escalates its military involvement around the globe, soldiers are returning to empty homes, child alienation and felony support warrants. I was able to save the life of one such victim from attempted suicide at a parenting convention we sponsored in 2011, but the unsuccessful instances are more telling, see i.e. Purple Heart’s Final Beat, Second Class Citizen.Org (2009).

Father discrimination may be the convenient scapegoat for politicians seeking to advance themselves, but as President Calvin Coolidge is quoted: “A country which forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten.” This message resonates as well with our domestic defenders. Virtually all responders on 9-11 were men entitled to equal treatment under the law. Yet an unpublicized number of fathers became eternally separated from their children and families without any changes to these laws as construed and enforced by our courts.”
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This month, we discuss how the child support system works and how the deadbeat dad stereotype is more myth than reality.
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Dear Sylvester Stallone:

We enjoyed your movie series “The Expendables.” This open letter builds upon that theme by alerting you to a real life story involving “expendables” in our nation’s domestic relations courts. I refer of course to good fathers relegated to that lower class of citizen known as a “non-custodial parent” and made to exercise an archaic form of parenting known as “visitation.” Such an exercise is more appropriate for prisons and funerals, not children and families.

An insidious trend continues to develop across our country whereby fit and loving fathers are marginalized, alienated and even removed from their children’s lives in order to feed a trillion dollar government industry. This industry thrives on orchestrated conflict, needless litigation and federal incentive grants that reward judges, lawyers and our state governments based on the number and magnitude of child support orders manufactured in these courts. Such orders are dependent…

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I am a Human being… a Parent.

Do not define me by my gender or race or popular opinion, but by my basic human rights as a parent.

"The liberty of parents to direct the upbringing, education, and care of their children..." In the 1925 decision of Pierce v. Society of Sisters, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a compulsory attendance act that required all parents to send their students to public schools, instead of private or religious schools. The court concluded that the act was unconstitutional because it "unreasonably interferes with the liberty of parents and guardians to direct the upbringing and education of children under their control." "...is a fundamental right."
“The liberty of parents to direct the upbringing, education, and care of their children…”
In the 1925 decision of Pierce v. Society of Sisters, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a compulsory attendance act that required all parents to send their students to public schools, instead of private or religious schools. The court concluded that the act was unconstitutional because it “unreasonably interferes with the liberty of parents and guardians to direct the upbringing and education of children under their control.”
“…is a fundamental right.”

Fighting the disease, not treating the symptoms…
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Hello Male Parents,  I wish you well and hope you know that your not at all alone.  Life can give us skills whether we want them or not.  In time, every father facing custody and court cases involving family law will develop a ‘thicker skin’ as we all know that nothing is more personal then an attack against your human rights, your rights as a parent and your ability to parent a child.  
75213-pasI would like to express a very important concept today.  This is extremely bold and progressive.  I believe their is no ‘movements’ in the world today to change the opinion of culture in the way that will actually build up momentum.  
I would like to give you an example. (the example is not aimed to defame or harm homosexual couples in any way, simply a random example.)  
 
     Equality for homosexual relationships in the USA have become popular.  
     Single Male parents seeking Equality in Custody and Family law is NOT.
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Mother interferes with daughter-dad relationship

Who do you believe will be the first to win Public approval in the equality of raising children?  

A large portion of Society will back gay rights to have two males or two females raise a child…  Will Society recognize the human rights of a Male parent to have ABSOLUTE EQUALITY in custody decisions or family court?    
The reason behind this is because Gay rights do not threaten the power of women as much as the concept ‘ MAN VS WOMAN ‘
When I started to think about this in depth, I realized that all the titles ‘Fathers rights’  are actually a way of setting your self apart from the majority of people who are actually in favor in society and doing more work to make and change laws.  You can go out in your yard and wave a giant flag ‘TEAM MEN!’  then go into society against ‘team women’ and see how big the teams are… 
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The real team we should all be one is ‘ TEAM EQUALITY FOR PARENTS ‘ using Human rights and a ‘gender-less’ approach to rights as a parent.  This way you are not allowing society to put you on the small team.  You are a parent…  the same way you are a Human (EQUAL).  Many arguments are made based on age and gender.  ‘for the best interests of the child’ should NEVER be used as a justification to disregard the rights of a parent.  The best interests of a child is just a term that was created by a person, made popular in litigation and put into law as a strong tactic to redirect focus and manipulate the overall outcome of a case.  A 4 year old is NOT going to remember being taken away from his/her mother in the same respects as a parent that loses his/her child.  Day to day memories, complex thought process, life and all that we as adults have to do to live is drastically effected and sometimes destroyed by the term ‘in the best interests of the child’.  A child’s best interest is Equality & Human rights.  Infact.. you.. yes you.. reading this.. were you a child?  Are you suffering loss right now? are you hurting?  do you see a broken legal system that effects you because your gender?  Are you best interest still important to the court?  NO… 
In the BEST interest of Human Rights and Equality, as a parent, I advocate on the equal rights of a child and parents to eliminate any gender bias or popular cultural opinions about any parent.  In law and to the world I am a Human and parent first…  Do not judge me by my gender.  
Human rights are LAW,  public policy guides local and federal laws through a general cultural opinion that develops in popular media and different ‘movements’ in society.  People (yes.. just people…) will lobby and push concepts on our government to enact laws that limit our human rights, this is not legal, but worded so ambiguously it is not correlated to its violation of our basic human rights until intense litigation and logical arguments are made and no one seems to argue it when its enacted.Amendment 14 US Constitution - 2015There is NO special exceptions to Equality.  Human rights are the same for all Human beings with NO SPECIAL CONSIDERATION for gender, age or race.
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Stolen Child and Abused by Mom

You must treat the disease, not the symptoms.  

This overall message is critical, but I have still seen people waving the wrong flag.  Yes it is glorious but your on the small weak team that is going to get stomped out, you have seen it… its not helping.  The overall picture is human rights, parental rights.  When you go into court, try making a point to keep yourself from defining yourself on the team that is not popular or favored in society.  Proudly claim yourself as a parent without defining yourself as a man.  This needs to be common practice in family law.  All references to gender in ALL forms of law need to be ELIMINATED. 
Children, Families and Society as a whole are being undermined by the effects Family Law Courts, Child Protection Services and other associated agencies have on their LIVES! This needs to be exposed NOW! Sign the Petition
Children, Families and Society as a whole are being undermined by the effects Family Law Courts, Child Protection Services and other associated agencies have on their LIVES! This needs to be exposed NOW! Sign the Petition

This is going to be a movement eventually…  lets start one.

My name is Ryan Sellars and I am a Human being… a Parent.  Do not define me by my gender or race or popular opinion, but by my basic human rights as a parent.
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Last night I cuddled up on the sofa with my five-year-old daughter Ruby as we enjoyed one of her favourite TV shows. It was the story of Tracy Beaker — who, I should explain to any non- parents, is a wonderful character created by the children’s author Jacqueline Wilson.

Tracy is a young girl growing up in a children’s home — she’s feisty and funny, but constantly fantastises about a better life. One with parents. Whenever she goes into one of her reveries, claiming to have ‘hay fever’ when she wants to shed a tear, Ruby gets sad. So last night, when hay fever struck Tracy, Ruby, too, became misty-eyed.

‘I’m so lucky to have a mummy and daddy,’ she said, hugging me. As I cuddled her back, I felt a terrible stab of guilt in my stomach.

For Ruby nearly didn’t have a daddy. For the first two-and-a-half years of her life, I…

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